When you get to heaven God is not going to ask you why you weren’t more like Mother Teresa, Billy Graham or Bono. He’s likely to ask you why you weren’t more like you. Your responsibility and source of real freedom and success is to discover who you are. Lead with your own unique talents and personality. Be authentically you and let God use you.
Take a minute to think about the person you are. Who can you look at as a role model for your life – the parts you feel good about. It’s ok if it is one person or several. What specifically do you try to model?
Do you think you are a good role model? If you knew, for certain, that someone was modeling himself in some way after you, would you act differently?
As soon as you become aware of these 10 tricks, they start popping up wherever you look. With minimal effort on your part, their unconscious influence on behavior can make a huge difference in your day-to-day life.
When a group of people laughs, each member of the group can’t help but make eye contact with the person they feel closest to
When someone does a favor for you, it actually makes them like you more
Silence gets answers
Open hands and palms create trust
Nodding your head during a conversation or when asking a question makes the other person more […]
Do you work a ‘typical’ 8-5 workday or something similar?
If you do you probably don’t have full control over how you spend your time, but you can still make adjustments within your workday that will improve your energy and efficiency through the day. And if you do have more control over your daily schedule this could be a rocket boost.
Click here for the best way to structure your day.
Concerned about your weight? Weigh yourself daily, at the same time each day for consistency.
Concerned about what you’re eating? Log every bite and review at the end of the day.
Too much time playing with your phone, or social media? Log it – track when you go online and how long you are on. If you use Chrome for browsing try the extension StayFocusd, or for Firefox try LeechBlock, or for Safari try WasteNoTime.
What else can you measure? Just about anything – for work, for play, for family. Brainstorm it, and see what you can measure to change your life for […]
Here’s how to get rid of anger:
Suppress rarely. They may not know you’re angry but you’ll feel worse inside and hurt the relationship.
Don’t vent. Communication is good but venting just increases anger. Distract yourself.
Reappraisal is usually the best option. Think to yourself, “It’s not about me. They must be having a bad day.”
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Prioritize Consistency Over Heroic Efforts
Though inspiration can suddenly strike, turning it into a tangible finished product is a matter of sustained effort, he says. “It’s getting up every day and doing the work…taking thousands of passes and polishes.”
Someone who cares about you, knows more than you, who will give you both good and constructive feedback and create opportunities is a blessing beyond imagination. Additionally, a good mentor helps you avoid making the same mistakes they have.
When entrepreneurs sacrifice sleep, they also sacrifice creativity, self-control, and attention span.
Put Yourself in Good Company
Starting a business is hard, not only because you […]
Save a little for the rest of us!
Seriously though, do you yourself going onto the same websites over and over again, every hour or maybe more often than that? Set a schedule so you only check news and social sites every couple of hours at most, and then just for a few minutes. Easiest way is to synchronize with your normal ‘break’ rituals like coffee, lunch, stretching, etc.
Chrome has an extension called StayFocusd which can help you limit your browsing time, and Firefox has one called LeechBlock which does the same. If you use Safari you can try WasteNoTime.
Do you play games on your phone?
How do you feel, physically, as a result of your game playing? Do you have a sore neck? Sore thumbs? Other places? Do you think that when the day is done you will be proud of your accomplishments with these games, or were they just filling time for you, wasting away your spare minutes?
Decide now whether you want to continue playing games. Decide whether the aches and pains are worth the irrelevant ‘achievements’, which suck time but really contribute nothing to your life.
Now go onto your phone and delete every single game app.
Now that […]
Do you have trouble saying no?
Take a look at your typical weekly activities and for each activity ask yourself whether it is beneficial to your life overall, necessary due to obligations, or not a good use of your time.
A lot of us have a tendency to overcommit. Recognize that spreading yourself thin does not benefit anyone, particularly you!
Choose one thing that you can get out of that will free up more Pairs of Spare Minutes. You can always return to this page and work on removing more non-beneficial activities from your life.